Hi Lee

That calls for a Cow Eater meeting in Suzhou : )
Hangzhou has a airport called Xiao Shan other then that Wuxi is close to Suzhou or u fly to Pu Dong or Hongxiao in shanghai.

The distance between the 3 Cities is within 2 hour range and availible via bus or train.
If u need help booking a hotel in suzhou just let me know i can trz to find u some cheap ones. For Tourism i suggest u check the More Magazin which has a internet page and is availible for Suzhou, Shanghai, Wuxi, Hangzhou incl. nice maps and place of interest, i guess u are interested in some expat community instead of doing the pure chinese thing, i thought she has to improve her language.

Keep me updated and see u soon around Jiangsu area.